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Treating IC has been one of the greatest challenges of my life. It has also been one of my greater pleasures. Watching people go from unhealthy to healthy is an amazing experience. It is also a huge lesson in psychology. We were required to take a year of psychology in school, during our master's level, but, I have to say that it was grossly inadequate. What I have learned in the last 12 years of practice could not be taught in school, or, if it could it would have taken much longer than a year to learn. People are so different in so many ways, but, if you add stress and fear to that variable, it becomes so much more unpredictable. I think even more than that what is interesting is that people forget. They forget where they came from in looking at the struggles they presently face. This is an interesting dynamic to me, largely because I always half jokingly remind myself that noone would ever have more than one child if the mind allowed us to fully remember our pain to its fullest. It is human nature to move on and forget. So, I understand how that happens. But, I think, in the case of IC, it would be better to remember because, this would keep us more focused on prospective health. Often when people become challenged with new issues on the way to getting really healthy they start to consider things that they never would have before and sometimes fall into traps that may lead them down a road that is not in their best interest. This is an easy trap to fall into because the advice that is given them is often so opposing between their traditional western docs and their holistic ones. I think journaling your symptoms sometimes can be too much for some people, but, it may be wise to do, so you do remember where you came from in order to keep perspective on future healthcare choices. I had an old patient come in a couple weeks ago who had been doing great for years, and relapsed. Why? Because she was having diet sodas galore! And, her diet was not good either. She said she was having frequency and discomfort with a general feeling of just being "off". Now three weeks later she is feeling normal again, so, it did not take a lot fo doing, but, this is an example of going back to old habits that are not in your best interest. Another patient this week came in--same story. Only she had been taking supplements of all kinds--just for "health", in addition to drinking alcohol and eating sugar. She will be fine in a couple of weeks also. But, the message is--work hard to get yourself back in balance--but when you get there--don't forget where you came from, and work like heck to keep yourself healthy and strong. Abstinence from alcohol and sugar is only a frame of mind. It is only abstinence if you look at it that way. For me, I look at those things as "why would I want to put a toxic thing like that in my body?" Our body is our temple. We should work hard to appreciate it and only give it what will make it thrive well. And, those foods should give us pleasure and a sense of decadence. So, remember to look at yourself with a clear perspective--1) where have you been? 2) where are you now? 3) where are you going? Choose health!

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icnot4me's picture
icnot4me

Matia
This blog entry brings up an issue I have always wondered about -- will people who have had ic always be prone to relapses in bladder symptoms if they start eatiing poorly, etc. In other words, once you've had ic, will you always have to be careful not to bring it back? I know many people who eat terrible and do not have ic. But a poor diet seems to bring ic on for those who have had it.
I hope I am making sense. In a way I fear that I will always have to walk on egg shells, in a sense, when it comes to bringing it back

drbrizman's picture
drbrizman

Well, I believe that health is a state of being, and that state will change depending on how you take care of yourself. Some people do come back but only for a few weeks and then they go on their way. This is always because of alcohol, sugar, sugar substitutes, basically, dietary abuse mainly. However, I know several patients who have gone on to actually make a habit of drinking and eating sugar and are fine. SO, I think this is just more evidence that we all ARE different and what works for one person might now work for someone else. OR, perhaps those people will be fine with their IC, but later develop other kinds of more serious things that dont show up immediately. Bottom line is: I think we all need to do our best to preserve the hard earned health we have fought for. We need to love our body.

jlopatka's picture
jlopatka

For me, IC really has been about examining my self esteem which if you know me outwardly, I am very gregarious, always willing to help, accept a new friend, etc. Inwardly though I have a lot of self doubt, depression, etc from growing up in a dysfunctional family. I actually forgive my dad because he was going through a lot too. When I hear Matia say, "we need to love our body" this is so true! I was not really taught that growing up. I didn't do sports or was encouraged to do group activities both of which I think encourage positive self image. I still struggle with inner negativity. People are always saying how hard I am on myself. I think of it as brutally honest. IC has helped me (if you can believe that) make a paradigm shift. I am still working on viewing my body as a temple. I never did drugs or was promiscuous, so I used that as an excuse to say, "I respect my body." But I will knowingly drink coffee knowing that it will hurt me. So I question myself and say, "how is drinking coffee in my situation any better than shooting up heroin?" it really isn't. That is hard for me to deal with because I feel cheated that others can drink coffee, etc and I can't. I try and remember though that what is right for others may not be for me... Every day is a challenge. Thanks Matia for that affirmation... "I need to love my body" I am going to use it... TODAY!

janejones's picture
janejones

I think the reason JYS can be too much for some people is becos if u write about yr pain or distressing symptoms in a daily diary it focuses yr mind on negative stuff and this is too depressing. What I do is write a daily diary about what I have eaten/drunk and list good things - like feeling well enough to go shopping, see friends, any meditation, taking part in a group healing etc. I think the brain shies away from writing about pain/distressing symptoms (along the same lines of forgetting the pain of childbirth - as u mentioned). Self-protection, survival mechanism.

Also the advice about affirmations holds true - i.e. not to say "I am NOT in pain" rather say "I am happy and comfortable" . Think it may be NLP stuff to have only positive words in affirmations and not negative ones (they say the brain focuses on the words in the sentence and doesn't hear the NOT). One of my affirmations is "Accentuate the positive, eliminate the negative, latch onto the affirmative, don't mess with Mr Inbetween."

drbrizman's picture
drbrizman

Jane,

I LOVE this!!!!!! Great idea, great message to everone.

M