I found some new products for those of you a little further down the line-probably around list 3 or further:

Jane Carter Solutions shampoo and conditioner-these are so moisturizing for your hair that you dont even need a gel or creme to use to blow dry or straighten your hair. And, I imagine if your hair is curly it will work really nicely as well. She has a sculpting solution that is also very nice, but, I dont think you will even need it. IT has a lot more essential oils in it, so this would be more list #4 or more.

John Masters styling gel. This is light and the ingredients are really nice.