New Year 2016

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I want to take a moment to say Happy New Year to everyone today and reflect a moment on 2015. I would say every year brings with it, it's challlenges yet, is also likely filled with many moments of the positive. 2015 was no exception. Someone said to me this week that if a person has something that they specialize in, their "greatness" is typically not marked by their acheivements, but rather thier trials and errors. I thought long and hard about that because I am very oriented on the successes. But, it is true, that a person cannot be able to acheive successes without falling more than just a few times. If I look back over the nearly 20 years I have been doing this work, I can see that the many times that unwanted outcomes were rendered were what led me the most to more deeply understand issues that I may not have otherwise come to realize.

With every year that I practice, I understand more and more that the variable of "human" can not be underestimated. We are all human and therefore unique. In as much as we each have a heart, a liver, blood running through our veins, lymph running through that immune system highway..... the way in which we operate is not like a machine that can be treated by examining it's broken parts. We are comprised of many variable components that serve to identify who we are and the inter-workings of our physiology, psychology, spirituality and that "magical" force that connects all of those parts.

Every year that I practice, I feel humbled by so many things in life and in the world of healing. I am humbled by the vastness of it all and am in awe of the capacity for change that we all possess as human beings. I have learned to honor what I know as well as what I do not know and to remain standing with my heart open to the fact that each of our physical and spiritual journeys contain different messages and themes. I have learned to not judge. The thing that I cherish the very most are the relationships that I share with so many people (primarily women) around the world through this work that I do.

Looking forward and wondering what is to come, and reflecting back on what has past, may often be painful when neither seems to coincide with our imagined vision. I think a part of that road to finding that balanced, healthy place in our own life is seeing the positive in the struggles that have met us in life. This is not an easy task. I know, as I have been there more than once. But, I don't ask, "why me?", I always ask myself, "OK, what am I supposed to learn from this now?", and, it brings comfort becuase in my heart of hearts, I do believe there is purpose to everything, and at the very least that is my hope. As I have done for all of these past 20 years, and what I will continue to do as long as I am breathing, is to try to make the lives of others as better as I possibly can, using my hands, heart, and mind for the mending of those in physical and psychological pain. And, if each one of us does this on a personal level every day-the world will be that much better for it.

Boaz and I share many visions of what we hope for in the future for ICAMA to help others more and more. With every year we practice, more of the goals are being met. Touching the lives of the many people we treat, and even some we don't creates the small steps necessary to build the larger ones to come. So, when I reflect on 2015, it was another year, another step that, without, with all of it's victories and challenges, would not be the the whole, the sum of what we have built so far. We are grateful for all of it.

We wish you all Happiness, Love, Peace and HEALTH!

Boaz and Matia

 

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C

Happy new year to you, thank you for this post. I have learned something positive from a struggle this week. Earlier in December I was going through a rough patch with my bladder and started to feel down and depressed with it-- that was until this week, as you know I fell Down the stairs and have probably cracked my ribs and my tailbone, but when I was lying at the bottom of the stairs screaming, I have never felt pain like it in my life, my husband thought I was dying and I thought I had broken my back and would never walk again, I was so scared, but to be able to walk around now and to know the cracks will heal and I'll be ok just feels me with so much relief and gratitude to be OK, as much as I would never want to go through it again, it showed me how good my life is even with the IC to have nearly lost something so huge. I managed to avoid taking the ibuprofen and am a lot more comfortable and I feel good to have got through the worst of the pain with ice and rest. My New Years resolution is "one step at at time" that's definitely how I'm taking the stairs! Lots of love to you and Boaz, Claudine xx

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drbrizman

It is so scary when these kinds of things happen. I am so happy you did not hurt yourself worse, and happy you were able to get through with the least amount of treatment. I think these kinds of things are reminders that whatever we are dealing with in life-we could definitely be facing much worse. I do remind myself of that every night when I go to sleep and contemplate things before I let go fro the day. And, I am always grateful for what I have not be given to deal with. I am happy you are on the mend!

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DLFox123

Thank you so much for this post - I love to reflect when you write in this manner.  So often it touches and speaks to my own journey - which should not be surprising - as it's the "human journey".  My own personal "work", in coming to grips with learning to learn, rather than wondering "why me?", when life throws me one of its curve balls, has been my greatest tool in my journey of not running scared.  For me, I'm practising on how to learn to dance in the rain.  Not so surprsingly, it vastly helps in bringing the sun back out again.

With much affection and gratitude -

Denise

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drbrizman

Denise-I have so much respect and admiration for you-for your journey-for how you face things. It IS the human journey that we all are experiencing and sharing one another's inspiration is so powerful. 

 

C's picture
C

Thank you Matia :)

Claudine xx

 

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Thea

I just logged on and read this post.  It brought tears to my eyes because I know what the successes feel like as well as the errors. Those errors make me yearn for the successes even more.  I appreciate the understanding, compassion, you (Dr. M) give to me when I struggle.  You never judge, but I know it is tough on you when I am not doing what I should.  I can't thank you enough for being the practioner you are.  I wish you, Boaz, your family and staff a healthy and happy 2016!

Heather 

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drbrizman

So sorry I didnt repsond sooner! What a sweet post! Thank you for these kinds words! If I had emogies on my laptop I would send hearts!

Dr.M