Suffering For Many Years

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I just received an email from a patient who apparently was very upset after reading another post from someone who said she had been in treatment for many years and is still suffering.

I won't go into any details on any specific person bc of confidentiality, however, I do want to say this:

As with any treatment, there will be some who don't do as well or don't go through it as fluidly as others. If one takes a closer look at the situation, perhaps there are reasons for it, and in some cases, perhaps one cannot find those reasons, although, I am certain they are there.

But, while considering what may be the right path for yourself, or contemplating what you think your journey may be, it is probably best to focus on the masses and not the few. Most people who go through this treatment do incredibly well-many right from the beginning, and others after a bit of time. This has been an avenue that leads away from suffering for so many people over the years whereas prior to it, I am not sure any such avenue existed. It is not easy, but, it is a road that is an option for many people searching for this kind of a route.

One of the challenges that I have faced over the years is to improve upon my own methods for those who go through the treatment in the more "normal" way so that they can feel better faster and more easily. The other challenge has been to identify the reasons that those who dont do well continue to struggle and come up with new ways to help them. I am accomplishing the first goal everyday, in my opinion. I think my methods are far more efficient than they were when I first started a decade and a half ago-definitely. And, my intention is to continue to accelerate that rate of improvement. The second goal is an individual one-case by case-trying to determine what is the problem with that specific person. And, I do think that I am uncovering many various reasons in each case and I am trying to figure out what to do about each case so that no one needs to continue to suffer endlessly. 

My passion for helping those in pain from IC is really something that comes from deep inside of me. I care very much about each of you. This is why I am available almost all of the time. It is because I care. I have remained committed to unravelling this issues with this condition since I started practicing in the mid 90's. I promised myself then I would take each person who came my way seriously and figure out how to help them because when I myself had been sick no one took me seriously. I have not wavered on that commitment in all of these years.

IC is a terrible condition to have, but, the this approach to it, in my opinion, is an incredible option for those who are able to embrace this kind of thinking. So, when one hears that someone has suffered for many years without becoming better, realize that they are few and far between in a sea of people who have been helped in getting their lives back. And hopefully one day, that sea will be complete with everyone on board, leaving no one behind.

Dr. Matia 

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Christine222

Thanks for posting this. There is a post on the forum from a person who is still suffering and I know some new patients are reading it and quite literally freaking out! Honestly it freaked me out a little, but I am one of the ones who is doing so well already. I know how scary it can be to think this could go on for years but I have total faith in the process and I know in my heart I will feel better again.

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deir

THANKS! I needed this! Thank God for Matia.

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lynette

Thank you so much for this post.  I too was freaked out by the post and kept telling myself not to react.
I would like to personally thank you Matia, I have seen for myself that you are there for all us as you are for me at this time, I have been so grateful for your dedication and it is clear that you do work tirelessly to help all of us.
I read an old post from you that you are elated when you see someone cross the bridge from misery to peace and part of me feels so strongly that although I want that more than anything for myself and all those I love I also want it for you so you can feel that elation.
Thank you again for all your efforts on all our behalfs.

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Shelby

I must admit, I was terrified when I read that post about the person who had been sick forever and didn't seem to be improving.  I have so many issues myself and I'm affraid I will be one of those persons who will never get well.  Thank you Dr. Brizman for your post....it really does help help.  I want with all my heart to get better and I'm 100 percent committed to getting well.  I just need to find the key to my own wellness.